Glamour.com asked us to enlist the official Texting Do’s and Dont’s list. Read all about it!
Okay guys, you’re always asking us what we like and how to text us to go out with you. We’ll were about to tell you so listen up and listen good! The answer is a lot easier than you think.
Girls like a man with a plan. We like it when you take charge, know what you want, and go after it. If what you want is to spend more time with us, then plan a fun date and tell us that you’re taking us out! What girl would turn that down? No girl wants to be texted, “so what’s your deal tonight?” at 7:30pm on a Friday. We’re girls and we like to be courted. We have guys calling us three days in advance to ask us out on dates, so your piss poor attempt to half-ass ask us out is not going to cut it. Girls are turned on by confident guys. So be confident, have a plan, and get to textin! Read below for some fun and easy examples.
Girls like guys who know what they want and to take charge, so be definitive in your texts. Say things like:
1. Cancel your plans. I just got you better ones.
2. Be ready at 8. I’m taking you out.
3. Dinner and a movie? Please inquire within.
4. Your company, my treat. Dinner tonight?
5. Drinks with a (relatively attractive) funny guy named X? Who’s in?
The 411 on Flirtexting
When it comes to communicating, our generation has shorter attention spans and greater expectations. Gone are the days when we spent time getting to know one another over hours of intimate phone conversations. Today we say it all within 160 characters of writing space. Now when you give a boy your number, you’ll soon receive a “1 new text message” light on your cell. Knowing what to do next is crucial to how your relationship will turn out!
As proud members of the MTV generation, the two of us conduct flirtatious dialogue through text on a daily basis; something we dubbed “flirtexting.” A flirtext is a text message sent to someone you have a crush on, someone you’re currently dating, or someone you used to date but still like to flirt with. Flirtexts are the text messages you re-type a dozen times before sending to be sure to say just the right thing. They’re the texts that leave your heart racing until you get a response. Flirtexting is taking over the dating scene so it’s time to polish up your typing skills and get prepared!
As old-fashioned girls who love to be swept off our feet the way our Grandmas were, it took us quite a while to become comfortable with the whole idea of flirtexting. But the 21st century has become a place where embracing change has become the “trendy” thing to do. We change our minds, outfits, boyfriends, and thoughts about our boyfriends at least twice a day. In an attempt to stay hip, we shed our fears about the death of romance and accepted flirtexting as a path that could potentially lead to our fairy tale ending. So we’ve adopted texting as our new obsession.
Boys love to text; therefore, girls need to know how to flirtext. Whether it’s “Mr. Right” or “Mr. Right Now” who you’re pining for, flirtexting will help you get what you want. In Flirtexting, we provide the ultimate guide to wooing your guy over text. After utilizing the skills taught in our book, our readers will have their latest conquest in the palm of their hands, literally. Message sent?
What are you waiting for? Go buy our book!
Love you mean it!
Deb and Liv