Dear Skeptic,
I’ve got news for those of you who think texting is a fad. It’s almost 2010 and texting isn’t slowing down, it’s becoming more and more popular by the minute. And if you don’t believe me, look to your left. That guy is texting and so is the person across from you. So you can continue complaining about how texting is ruining our relationships, but fighting an inevitable phenomenon isn’t going to be fun.
When we began writing our book over three years ago, we had already picked up on the fact that texting and dating were here to stay. We knew that any type of communication which allowed people get their message across in 160 characters or less, was a type of communication that people were going to value. In order to stay ahead of the curve, we put down our fighting gloves and devised a way to make flirtexting™ work for us. And we’re so glad we did.
A large misconception that people have about flirtexting is that it’s taking away from personal relationships. When used incorrectly, this might be the case. That’s why it’s important to know the rules and guidelines for texting and dating. For example, texters must remember that flirtexting is merely a supplement to phone calls and face-to-face interactions, and should be used in conjunction to both.
Once you figure out the rules and bylaws to flirtexting, you’ll understand the importance of using text as a way to add spice to an already flirty relationship. Looking back, all that fuss you were making about how texting was ruining our lives will seem silly and inconsequential.
In conclusion dear Skeptic, you can keep holding out and stand by your noble “I don’t text” rules. But I promise you that soon enough you will see the light. It may not be tomorrow, or the next day, but soon you’ll be flirtexting with the best of us. And when you do, we’ll gladly welcome you with open arms.
Sincerely,
2009